Pammy De Lux:
In Search of Feminization


If you are new here, I'm Pammy, and I invite you to join me as I search for the best ways to feminize myself. Proudly owned by the great Dom de Luxury (AKA SheDaddy), I was born a gender-fluid male. SheDaddy has been my creator, guide, and mentor in this amazing journey.

It's a gender-specific world. Those of us who move between genders or who wish to change their biological gender forever face many problems. If you need help with the emotional, psychological or social issues that you might be having, I'm not the person to help you. But if you want to find a dress that will fit you, do better makeup, find great breast forms or any other practical problems, the chances are good that I've tried to answer your question here. Based on the mail I've received since I started this website, many hundreds of people have found their answers here and I hope you do too. If you don't have gender issues but are a curious tourist, I extend you a warm welcome also.

How the Site is Organized

Updates and new articles can be found by checking the "What's New" link in the menu bar. If you're curious about me, some questions are answered in the FAQ.

The website is a couple of years old by now and I've learned a lot. I've been reorganizing things and I plan on completely rewriting some of the early articles about things like clothes. By far the most frequent question in the mail I've gotten lately is where I buy my clothes. So I think I will write one or two general articles about how to find clothes that fit. After that, I will add a series of reviews about the things I have found. This is probably as good a place as any to point out that I make absolutely no money from the website. I did try to join the affiliate program, but they turned me down. (Transgender sites are not exactly popular with the general population). I don't want to destroy the look of the website with ads, so you won't be seeing those here either.

The Be Better menu will take you to a series of pages with articles of general interest to any transgender/crossdresser/sissy. These are all about the practical aspects of being a girl: makeup, clothes, body modification (prosthetics and corsets), jewelry, perfume. etc. This is the most popular section of the website and I'm really pleased that so many of you love the work I've done there. I'm always looking for better ideas and since I am in the U.S., I'm especially interested to hear about places to buy things in other countries, to help out people who live there. So please feel free to send me a note and I will happily give you credit (or not, if you prefer).

Training and Tips is more personal and deals with the larger picture of my journey, my training and behavior modification. It will probably be of interest primarily to those who serve my Owner, Dom de Luxury (AKA SheDaddy). I do talk about things like the plastic surgeries that I have had or am planning to have and other projects, such as voice feminization, that I would have to classify as "works in progress". If I ever feel I have a definitive point of view on any of these, I'll move them into the Be Better section. I generally avoid psychological/philosophical speculation, but you might find some in this section. You will definitely find some information about the specifics of some of my Owner's training methods (I share the training lists she gives me, for example), how to DIY certain devices she likes to use, and other details.

While most of the topics are available to anyone, there are a few which are available only to those who serve SheDaddy and only she can give you the passwords to allow access to those sections.

I welcome information and comments. If you wish to contact me,