How to Deep Throat

As she feminizes you, Dom de Luxury will be working on your oral skills. She does this because it's important to break down all the parts of your former masculinity, no matter how hard it might be at first. In order to rebuild, one must sometimes tear down.

One assignment you are likely to get that requires daily practice is deep throating. Properly done, deep throating is not dangerous. It does require frequent practice and you can't really learn it in sessions. This was one of the hardest things for me to learn and this is how I did it.

Controlling Your Gag Reflex

The difficulty with deep throating is that most of us will feel like we have to vomit the first time we do it. This is because of a reflex which causes the throat to contract when trigger points of the mouth and throat are touched. About 1/3 of the world doesn't have a gag reflex. They are the world's natural deep throaters. The rest of us are going to have to learn to control it. A much smaller percentage has an extremely strong gag reflex. If you're one of them, you're going to have to be patient. It is completely possible to learn to control your gag reflex. After all, sword swallowers have been deep throating much more dangerous objects for centuries. Controlling the gag reflex is the only physical obstacle to deep throating. Everything else is psychological. Any psychological issues you may have with deep throating a dildo are best resolved by remembering that your life is now devoted to Dom de Luxury and only her wishes matter. Keep this thought and her beauty always before you, and any "issues" you might have will begin to appear minor, eventually disappearing as the irrelevant distractions that they were.

You can use anything you want to start controlling your gag reflex. Dildo's are soft and not likely to damage your throat, so you might as well use them. Anything you stick in your mouth should be washed clean and perhaps even sterilized, depending on where it is been.

To sterilize a dildo, soak it in a 10% solution of chlorine bleach for 15 minutes. A 10% solution of bleach is 9 parts of water with 1 part of bleach added. Your "part" can be any size you wish. For example, 900 ml of water to 100 ml of bleach will give you a liter of 10% chlorine bleach solution.

Let's get to it.

Now that you have a clean dildo, finger or something else reasonable, this is how you learn to deep throat:

  1. Place the dildo into your mouth and slowly move it towards the back of your throat.
  2. When it gets back far enough, unless you are one of those people who have no gag reflex, you will want to gag. Don't force it past this point. Just keep it there and try to suppress your gag reflex by breathing through your nose and keeping your throat relaxed.
  3. Breathing is key. It helps more than anything. You will find that some days this comes easier than others. Just keep at it, and it will eventually become very easy for you.
  4. For the first week, leave it there for 10 seconds. Don't try to move it in or out, just leave it at the point where it triggers your gag reflex.
  5. Try to do this every day for a week. Towards the end of the week, it should start to get easier and your gag reflex won't be as sensitive as when you started.
  6. By the end of the second or third week, your gag reflex will be much less sensitive. When you notice this, you can slowly move the dildo in and out of your mouth so it keeps brushing against your gag reflex point.
  7. Warning! The first time you do this, it will really stimulate your gag reflex, and might even feel like throwing up. Stay calm, focus on your breathing and relax your throat. It will get better. Think of Dom. That always helps me.
  8. After another week or two (or longer if you have a really strong gag reflex), you will find that you can deep throat easily without gagging or coughing.

That's all there really is to it. One thing that can help to get the dildo really deep is to tilt your head slightly back. The idea is to make a straight line between your mouth and your throat. You may have seen sword swallowers do this. It's the same idea. And in fact, sword swallowers are the world's best deep throaters, have long happy lives, and should make you realize that doing this with a nice, unsharp dildo is not going to damage you.

One final thing.

This is not permanent. If you stop practicing, your gag reflex will return. So you need to keep your skills sharp by practicing, even if Dom de Luxury moves on to other parts of your training, because she will come back to this, and you don't want to disappoint her.

As always, I hope this will be helpful in your training. I'm always interested to hear if I can make any improvements or even just to hear a nice compliment. If you have something like that to say, please feel free to